Should I Buy a Home with My Best Friend? NJ Real Estate Lawyer Gives His Opinion

Home prices have hit record highs in 2025, making it extremely difficult for the average adult to purchase their own home. While home prices have surged, income increases have stagnated, leading to a high price-to-income ratio. Combined with a long-term housing undersupply and high mortgage rates, homeownership is incredibly unaffordable in 2025. Individuals entering the housing market are looking at creative ways to afford homeownership.
Many are purchasing a home with their friends to pool their financial resources. Splitting the cost of buying a home amongst two or even several individuals can drastically reduce the financial contribution required for homeownership. Splitting the down payment, monthly rent, and any incidental expenses can be an affordable way to maintain a home. It can also help you avoid the exorbitant cost of renting and instead put your money towards an investment.
But there are many considerations you need to think about before teaming up with your friend to buy a home. Purchasing a home is, after all, a complex legal and financial transaction. Here are six steps to ensure a smooth transaction.
1. Pick a Good Investment Partner
Maybe you are considering purchasing a home with a friend to rent out and generate additional income. Perhaps you are looking to buy a house to flip. Or you may intend to live in your shared home together. Regardless of your intentions, you need to view this for what it is: a legally binding transaction. This purchase will legally and financially bind you to this person for as long as you co-own the property. It is critical that you consider the qualities in your friend that may make them a good investment partner—or a bad one.
This decision goes beyond who you personally enjoy spending time with or whom you trust with your secrets. Your high school BFF may be a perfectly wonderful person, but that doesn’t mean they make sound financial decisions. Do your due diligence before you consider making this kind of investment together. Transparency about each other’s finances is essential to establishing the trust needed to purchase a home together.
You can have a local title company do a judgment and liens search, a litigation search, and a bankruptcy search on a prospective partner, so you aren’t surprised down the road. You can each share your credit report as an additional measure of good financial standing. Much of this information will come out anyway when lenders review your legal and financial history if you are financing a property.
2. Determine Your Goals
Why are you purchasing this property?
Before you even begin your property search, sit down with your friend and establish your goals. For example, if you are purchasing a house to rent out for extra income, you need as many details hammered out as possible before making an offer. Will you be renovating? How much do you expect to invest in home improvements? What do you expect to charge for rent? Who will be responsible for paying for or doing property maintenance?
All of these details and more should be carefully thought through to avoid conflict and ensure you maintain your friendship throughout this process.
3. Work With Professionals
Once you understand your goals, it is a good idea to sit down with a real estate attorney and a real estate agent to determine the best way to move toward them. While a real estate agent can help you find the property you are looking for, a real estate attorney can help you and your friend protect yourself, your partner, and your investment. Working with experienced professionals can help you feel supported and more confident in your decisions throughout this complex process.
For example, if you do not plan to live in the house but instead intend to flip or rent it, it may be legally advisable to form an LLC. An LLC can protect you and your co-owner from certain liability. While an LLC will often pay a higher interest rate than an individual, the legal peace of mind is worth the extra cost. It will also help you if your partner decides to stop providing their share of the monthly mortgage payments.
Regardless of your goals, a real estate attorney can ensure you are protecting your interests.
4. Apply for a Mortgage
Most lenders will approve mortgages for friends buying a home together. When applying for a mortgage with a friend or friends, you will apply for a joint mortgage, but each individual will fill out their own separate application. The lender will gather all the personal and financial details on each applicant. Then, they will look at the group as a whole to determine if you qualify for the loan. If every individual checks out AND the lender determines you have the financial ability to achieve your purchasing goals, you and your friend(s) will be approved for the loan.
5. Determine Type of Ownership
When two individuals who are not married purchase a home together, they need to determine the parameters of their co-ownership. Specifically, you need to determine whether your ownership agreement is a tenancy-in-common (TIC) or a joint tenancy. This differentiation is arguably the most crucial decision you will make throughout the entire process.
The differences between these ownership agreements basically come down to what happens to the property after your death. With tenants in common, your share of the property would pass to your beneficiaries. With a joint tenancy, your co-owner would automatically inherit your portion of the property. Unless your co-owner is a beneficiary, you would most likely want to enter into a tenants-in-common agreement.
However, not all legal advice is one-size-fits-all. Your specific circumstances may make other legal agreements or protections more beneficial. Working with an expert real estate attorney can help you fully understand your legal options and do everything you can to protect the interests of you and your friend.
6. Create a Side Operating Agreement
We know what you’re thinking: another contract? You will sign a ton of legal paperwork throughout the home-buying process. But none of these documents may adequately address the complexities of owning a home with a friend. Hammering out the details while the purchase is fresh can help alleviate stress and disagreements down the road. You need to consider every aspect of home ownership, including what it looks like when you co-own a property.
Who gets the house at what times? Who pays utilities? Who maintains and repairs the property? What happens if one person wants out of the deal? A side operating agreement can help you and your friend define these responsibilities.
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Veitengruber Law has worked with NJ homeowners for over a decade to protect their investments and achieve their real estate goals. When friends purchase property together, it can make an already complicated situation more complex. Working with an experienced real estate lawyer can help you avoid legal hassles and friendship fallouts.




